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About Our Therapists
What is a Registered Psychotherapist (RP)?
A psychotherapist (also commonly referred to as a “therapist” or a “counsellor”) helps with emotional and mental health problems in individuals, couples, and families through a variety of therapeutic approaches. In 2007, the Ministry of Health and Long-Term Care (MOHLTC) defined psychotherapists in Ontario as “regulated health professionals,” which means that all psychotherapists in Ontario need to be licensed members of the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO) and to utilize the formal title of “Registered Psychotherapist (RP).”
What is a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) and a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist (RMFT)?
A Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) holistically believes that your relationships with others (for example, with your family members) represent an essential aspect of your life and personal well-being and that your counselling process is more effective if he or she fully considers all of your relationships within his or her treatment plan for you. Within the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) is a Pre-Clinical Fellow and a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist (RMFT) is a Clinical Fellow.
What is the difference between a psychotherapist, a psychologist, a psychiatrist, and a social worker?
A psychotherapist (also commonly referred to as a “therapist” or a “counsellor”) helps with emotional and mental health problems in individuals, couples, and families through numerous therapeutic modalities. A psychologist may work in a variety of possible roles, from teaching psychology courses in universities and engaging in academic research to counselling clients and administering advanced psychological assessments. A psychiatrist specializes in the diagnosis and treatment (mainly through psychotropic medication) of mental or psychiatric disorders. A social worker helps people to resolve issues of everyday life (including through counselling services) and to access government and community resources.
Can my therapist prescribe medication for me?
No, your therapist is not a medical doctor and cannot prescribe medication. To obtain a prescription for medication, please speak with your family doctor or request a referral for an appointment with a psychiatrist.
About Our Counselling Services
Do I need to be Christian to seek counselling with you?
No, our counselling center is non-denominational and we welcome you as a client regardless of your religious or spiritual affiliation, cultural heritage, socioeconomic background, or sexual orientation. Each of our therapists is a professionally trained Registered Psychotherapist (RP) and treats a diversity of clients through numerous therapeutic modalities. Christian counselling is merely one of many possible counselling options available to you from our therapists. If you do wish to integrate your religious faith or spiritual beliefs into your counselling sessions, please inform your therapist. He or she embraces your input into your counselling process and seeks to incorporate your personal preferences into his or her treatment plan for you.
How am I helped by counselling?
Counselling may be very beneficial to you in many ways. For example, the simple act of confidentially disclosing your personal problems to your therapist may provide you with great relief, as may discovering that you are not alone in your private struggle and that many supports are available to you. The most important element in your counselling progress is the trusting, supportive partnership between you and your therapist. By scheduling an appointment with one of our therapists to discuss your personal situation, you can receive his or her feedback about how counselling may be of specific assistance to you.
What are the possible risks of counselling?
Counselling is generally experienced as a safe and positive process. However, due to the nature of change and some of the private issues that you may discuss with your therapist, you may feel increased distress or uncertainty at times. For example, choosing to explore a painful situation from your past may stimulate dormant emotions or memories that feel uncomfortable for you until you and your therapist successfully resolve the issue. Please share your feedback about your emotional well-being with your therapist so that he or she may support you through your counselling process.
How much counselling will I need?
During your first counselling session, you and your therapist may confer about the number of counselling sessions that you possibly require based upon your private concerns and the shared goals that you and your therapist may seek to achieve together. The frequency of your counselling sessions may vary from weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly to more occasional appointments. Together, you and your therapist can determine a treatment plan that best suits your unique needs and scheduling availability.
Is child-minding available?
Unfortunately, we do not offer child-minding services at this time. Please prepare alternative childcare arrangements during your appointments.
My partner and I wish to receive Couple Counselling from one of your therapists, but a restraining order is currently in effect. What are our options?
If a restraining order is currently in effect, you need to either delay Couple Counselling until the restraining order expires or follow legal procedures to have it revoked. At your first counselling session, we need you to present official documentation proving that the restraining order is actually expired or revoked. In the meantime, however, we can also schedule two separate appointments (that is, one appointment for you and a different appointment for your partner) for your therapist to assess your relationship needs and your level of emotional safety prior to proceeding with Couple Counselling. Please contact us for additional information.
How do I arrange for counselling for my child under 12 years of age?
In order for your child under 12 years of age to receive our Personal Counselling for Children/Youth or Family Counselling service, we need to know the current marital status of you and your child’s other parent. If you and your child’s other parent are currently separated or divorced and you possess sole custody, please present your custody papers to us at your child’s first counselling session. If you and your child’s other parent are currently separated or divorced and you do not possess sole custody, we need your child’s other parent to provide us with his or her written authorization for your child to receive counselling prior to your child’s first appointment. Please contact us for more information.
May I be informed of and/or participate in the counselling sessions of my child(ren)?
Please refer to How private is my child’s counselling?
About Your Counselling Session(s)
What should I expect to happen when I contact you?
In addition to answering any general questions you may have, we first ask you several screening questions to assess the best type of counselling service for you. We then ask you for:
- Your name and contact information;
- Your preferred therapist (if you have one); and
- A brief description of your specific counselling needs. (Please note that if you do not feel comfortable discussing your private circumstances, you do not need to answer.)
Finally, we inquire about your typical availability throughout the week in order to schedule your first counselling session (with your preferred therapist, if you have one) at your earliest convenience.
What should I expect to happen during my free telephone meeting?
We understand that seeking counselling is a potentially difficult decision for you, and so we are pleased to offer complimentary telephone meetings with our therapists. A brief telephone meeting is a safe and helpful way for you to discuss your private concerns; learn more about how CFCS may fulfill your counselling needs; and assess your comfort level with your potential therapist. Please contact us today to inquire about a complimentary telephone meeting with one of our therapists. (Please note that we do not offer telephone counselling and that your therapist can only dispense advice to you during an in-office counselling session. If you would like telephone-based emotional support and counselling, please explore our listing of Peel Region 24/7 helplines, available through our Helpful Resources page.)
What options do I have if my preferred therapist is unavailable to counsel me?
Unfortunately, we cannot always immediately book your first counselling session with your preferred therapist – for example, if your availability differs from your preferred therapist’s weekly appointment schedule or if your preferred therapist is currently at his or her full caseload. We understand how disappointed you may feel if your preferred therapist is currently unavailable to you, and we can:
- Advise you of schedule openings with our other therapists;
- Assign you to your preferred therapist’s cancellation or waiting list; or
- Refer you to other counselling services in Mississauga or your local community.
How private is my counselling?
During your first counselling session, your therapist fully explains the principle of confidentiality and your right to privacy in counselling. As a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), your therapist complies with specific confidentiality laws and regulations to protect your privacy. Although your therapist may discuss your case (without personally identifying you) with his or her approved clinical supervisor for professional consultation purposes and to ensure the highest standard of ethical service delivery to you, he or she may not otherwise disclose — whether verbally, in writing, or electronically — your personal identity or case information without your written authorization. Your therapist is also subject to several legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality. (For more information about the legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality, please see What are the legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality?)
How private is my child’s counselling?
During your child’s first counselling session, your child’s therapist fully explains the principle of confidentiality and how it applies specifically to your child depending upon his or her age. As a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), your child’s therapist complies with specific confidentiality laws and regulations to protect your child’s privacy. Your child’s therapist may discuss your child’s case (without personally identifying your child) with his or her approved clinical supervisor for professional consultation purposes and to ensure the highest standard of ethical service delivery to your child. Any other disclosure of your child’s personal identity or case information by your child’s therapist is based upon his or her age:
- If your child is under 12 years of age, your child’s therapist may fully disclose his or her case information to you as a parent or legal guardian. In addition, you may provide written authorization for your child’s therapist to otherwise disclose — whether verbally, in writing, or electronically — your child’s personal identity or case information.
- If your child is aged 12 to 15, your child’s therapist may or may not disclose his or her case information to you as a parent or legal guardian. In addition, either you or your child may provide written authorization for your child’s therapist to otherwise disclose — whether verbally, in writing, or electronically — your child’s personal identity or case information.
- If your child is aged 16 or over, he or she is legally considered an adult for counselling purposes. Therefore, your child’s therapist may not disclose his or her case information to you as a parent or legal guardian without your child’s written authorization. In addition, only your child may provide written authorization for your child’s therapist to otherwise disclose — whether verbally, in writing, or electronically — your child’s personal identity or case information.
Your child’s therapist is also subject to several legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality. (For more information about the legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality, please see What are the legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality?)
What are the legal and regulatory limits to confidentiality?
Your therapist is required by law and/or professional regulations to discuss your therapy and/or disclose your client record without your written authorization under the following circumstances:
- If you indicate in any way that you represent a risk of harm to yourself or others, your therapist must call upon other professionals to assist in supporting safety;
- If your therapist is served with a subpoena, he or she is legally required to release your client record to the court and/or to testify about your therapy in court proceedings as necessary;
- If your therapist learns of the physical, sexual, or serious emotional abuse (which may include neglect and/or exposure to violence within the family) of a child under the age of 16, he or she must notify the Children’s Aid Society;
- If you inform your therapist of an abuse committed by another regulated health professional, your therapist may need to report this to the governing body of that professional; and
- If you disclose to your therapist that you were abused as a child and your childhood abuser may represent a danger to children now, your therapist may need to notify the Children’s Aid Society.
What is my client record, and how do you protect the security and privacy of my client record?
Your therapist documents your counselling sessions within your client record (which is stored in both hard-copy and electronic format) for record-keeping purposes. Your client record is the legal property of Cornerstone Family Counselling Services (CFCS) and we must retain your client record for at least 10 years following your last counselling session with your therapist. We protect the security and privacy of your client record in the following three ways:
- Administratively — All of our staff members sign confidentiality agreements and may only access your client record on a need-to-know basis;
- Physically — Your hard-copy client record is stored inside a locked filing cabinet within a locked file room; and
- Electronically — Your electronic client record is saved within an encrypted and password-protected online database with 128-bit Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) data security protocols.
How do I access my (or my child’s) client record?
If you wish to access your (or your child’s) client record, we first need you to contact us and make arrangements to request a copy of your (or your child’s) client record in writing. We then follow a different release procedure depending upon the type of counselling service that you (or your child) received from us (that is, Personal Counselling for Adults, Personal Counselling for Children/Youth, Couple Counselling, or Family Counselling). Please contact us for additional information.
What is your appointment cancellation policy?
We understand that from time to time you may need to cancel a counselling session. To treat your therapist and his or her current and waitlisted clients with respect and courtesy, we ask that you please confirm or cancel your appointments by 12:00 PM noon of the previous business day. If you cancel your appointment after 12:00 PM noon of the previous business day, you may need to pay a Cancellation Fee equal to 50% of your counselling session fee. If you fail to attend your appointment without providing any notice, you may need to pay a “No-Show” Fee equal to 100% of your counselling session fee.
What are your fee reduction options?
We offer several different fee reduction options based upon financial need. If you are interested in reducing your counselling session fee, please inquire with our intake administrator or your therapist. Please note that we need you to present official documentation of your gross annual household income (for example, a T4 slip) and that we also need to know your household size.
How do I claim my counselling sessions as a medical expense on my tax return?
Please retain all of your receipts from us, as the Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) considers counselling sessions with a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) in Ontario to be a medical expense that you can claim through your income tax and benefits return. For more information about how to claim your counselling sessions as an eligible medical expense, please inquire with CRA or refer to the CRA publication RC4065 Medical Expenses – 2015.
Is my counselling covered under the Ontario Health Insurance Plan (OHIP)?
Your counselling with us is not covered under the Ontario Health Insurance Plan (OHIP). OHIP may cover counselling with your family doctor or with a psychotherapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or social worker employed at a publicly-funded institution (such as a hospital or a social services agency). Please speak with your family doctor about accessing counselling services covered under OHIP.
Is my counselling covered under my private health insurance plan?
Please inquire with your private health benefits provider to learn if your private health insurance plan covers counselling sessions with a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT), or a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist (RMFT). If your private health benefits provider covers your counselling, they need to know the name and licensed credentials of your therapist. This information is included upon all of your receipts; it is also available through your therapist’s profile page. Please note that it is your responsibility to submit copies of your receipts to your private health benefits provider.
American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT):
The professional association of Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs) and Registered Marriage and Family Therapists (RMFTs) throughout Canada, the United States, and other countries.
Clinical Supervision:
A professional consultation about your counselling process (without personally identifying you) between your therapist and his or her clinical supervisor — a highly experienced Registered Psychotherapist (RP) approved as a clinical supervisor by the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) — to promote the ongoing professional development of your therapist and to ensure the highest standard of ethical service delivery to you.
College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO):
The health regulatory college authorized by the Ontario Ministry of Health and Long-Term Care (MOHLTC) under the Regulated Health Professions Act (RHPA) of 1991 and the Psychotherapy Act of 2007 to regulate all Registered Psychotherapists (RPs) in Ontario in the public interest by establishing registration requirements and professional practice standards.
Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT):
A psychotherapist with a pre-clinical fellowship in the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) and a holistic perspective in which your counselling process is more effective if he or she incorporates your primary relationship networks (such as your family) into his or her assessment and treatment of your private concern.
Psychotherapy:
A broad range of psychological treatment methods in which you and your therapist communicate openly about your memories, feelings, and thoughts about your private situation in order to improve your personal mental health or your relationships with others; also referred to as “counselling,” “therapy,” or “talk therapy.”
Psychotherapeutic Modalities:
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Attachment-Based Therapy:
A psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist explore any negative attachment/separation experiences in your childhood in order to identify and correct your unhealthy relationship patterns and help you to feel more confident and secure in life.
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Christian Counselling:
A mode of pastoral care (available to you at CFCS at your request) in which you and your therapist incorporate the Christian belief system and Biblically-based teachings and values into the interpretation and treatment of your private situation.
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Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT):
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist identify and transform the two-way relationship between your cognition (that is, your memories, feelings, and thoughts) about your private struggle and your behavior in order to improve your day-to-day mental health and personal well-being.
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Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT):
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist explore your memories, feelings, and thoughts associated with negative or traumatic experiences in order to transform your maladaptive (or unhealthy) emotional responses into adaptive (or healthy) emotional responses.
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Experiential Therapy:
A psychotherapeutic modality in which you engage in a therapist-directed activity (such as art therapy, equine therapy, music therapy, psychodrama, recreational therapy, or wilderness therapy) in order to identify and address your hidden or subconscious issues.
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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR):
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality in which you engage in therapist-directed eye movements as you and your therapist discuss your traumatic and other adverse memories, feelings, and thoughts in order to create a more positive emotional association that reduces your distress and improves your mental health.
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Focusing Therapy:
A short-term psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist develop your inner awareness of your slight bodily responses (referred to as your “felt sense”) to your memories, feelings, and thoughts about your personal difficulty in order to gain a deeper, more intuitive understanding of your private situation and its effective resolution.
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Interpersonal Therapy (IPT):
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality for treating mood disorders (such as anxiety or depression) and relationship issues in which you and your therapist develop your communication and interpersonal skills in order to enhance your social support system.
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Narrative Therapy:
A psychotherapeutic modality for treating individuals, couples, and families in which you and your therapist identify how your “narrative” (or your personal conceptualization of your private issue) is selectively negative in order to create a new narrative that helpfully contributes to positive change and personal growth for you.
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Play Therapy:
An age-appropriate, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality for the treatment of emotional and behavioral difficulties in children in which your child’s therapist engages with your child through creative activities (such as artwork, dance, music, role-playing with puppets or toys, and storytelling) in order to foster emotional literacy and healthy emotional management strategies in your child.
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Relational Therapy:
A psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist create a secure, empathetic relationship in order to develop your confidence, knowledge, and skills in forming and maintaining similarly fulfilling and supportive relationships with others.
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Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT):
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality in which you and your therapist minimize the assessment and diagnosis stage of your counselling process and instead empower you to apply your existing inner resources (such as your creativity, knowledge, and motivation) in order to immediately improve your private situation through goal-setting and homework activities.
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Structural Family Therapy:
A psychotherapeutic modality in which your therapist identifies and analyzes the relationships and rules governing your family system in order to positively restructure your dysfunctional family relationships.
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Trauma-Focused Therapy:
A short-term, evidence-based psychotherapeutic modality based upon cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) in which you and your therapist utilize a specialized combination of exposure (both real and imagined), cognitive restructuring, and stress management techniques to help you recover from trauma and improve your daily functioning.
Registered Psychotherapist (RP):
A psychotherapist (also referred to as a “therapist” or a “counsellor”) in Ontario licensed by the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO) to help with emotional and mental health problems in individuals, couples, and families through numerous possible psychotherapeutic modalities.
Therapeutic Alliance:
The unique professional relationship that develops between you and your therapist as you work together to create the improved well-being that you seek for yourself, your relationship, your family, or your child.
Personal Counselling for Adults
The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne
Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How To Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Boundaries Where You End and I Begin: How To Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries by Anne Katherine
The Courage To Heal Workbook: For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Laura Davis
Daring Greatly: How the Courage To Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown
The Eating Disorder Sourcebook: A Comprehensive Guide to the Causes, Treatment, and Prevention of Eating Disorders by Carolyn Costin
Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns
The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go Of Who You Think You’re Supposed To Be and Embrace Who You Are by Brené Brown
The Grief Recovery Handbook: The Action Program For Moving Beyond Death, Divorce, and Other Losses by John W. James and Russell Friedman
Healing After the Suicide Of A Loved One by Ann Smolin
I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t): Making the Journey From “What Will People Think?” To “I Am Enough” by Brené Brown
I Wasn’t Ready To Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping, and Healing After the Sudden Death Of A Loved One by Brook Noel and Pamela D. Blain
Love Is A Choice: The Definitive Book On Letting Go Of Unhealthy Relationships by Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier
Mind Over Mood, Second Edition: Change How You Feel By Changing the Way You Think by Dennis Greenburger and Christine A. Padesky
No Time To Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide Of A Loved One by Carla Fine
The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques For Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms by Mary Beth Williams and Soili Poijula
The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook by Martha Davis, Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman, and Matthew McKay
The Self-Esteem Workbook by Glenn R. Schiraldi
The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook: Proven, Step-By-Step Techniques For Overcoming Your Fear by Martin M. Antony and Richard P. Swinson
When Love Hurts: A Woman’s Guide To Understanding Abuse In Relationships by Jill Cory and Karen McAndless-Davis
Where To Draw the Line: How To Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day by Anne Katherine
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
Personal Counselling for Children/Youth
Feeling Great: Teaching Children To Excel At Living by Terry Orlick
Helping Children To Build Self-Esteem: A Photocopiable Activities Book by Deborah Plummer
Self-Esteem Games: 300 Fun Activities That Make Children Feel Good About Themselves by Barbara Sher
Couple Counselling
After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When A Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Spring
Fighting For Your Marriage: Positive Steps For Preventing Divorce and Preserving A Lasting Love by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations For A Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson
Love Is A Verb: How To Stop Analyzing Your Relationship and Start Making It Great by Pat Hudson and Bill O’Hanlon
NOT “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass
When Love Hurts: A Woman’s Guide To Understanding Abuse In Relationships by Jill Cory and Karen McAndless-Davis
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds Of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
Family Counselling
A Chicken’s Guide To Talking With Your Kids About Sex by Kevin Leman and Kathy Flores Bell
Have A New Teenager By Friday: From Mouthy and Moody to Respectful and Responsible In Five Days by Kevin Leman
How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlich
Kids Are Worth It: Raising Resilient, Responsible, Compassionate Kids by Barbara Colorose
Love Is A Choice: The Definitive Book On Letting Go Of Unhealthy Relationships by Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier
Raising Confident Girls: 100 Tips For Parents and Teachers by Elizabeth Hartley-Brewer
Relationship-Empowerment Parenting: Building Formative and Fulfilling Relationships With Your Children by Judy Balswick, Jack Balswick, and Boni Piper
Scream-Free Parenting: The Revolutionary Approach To Raising Your Kids While Keeping Your Cool by Hal Edward Runkel
Try and Make Me!: A Revolutionary Program For Raising Your Defiant Child — Without Losing Your Cool by Ray Levy and Bill O’Hanlon
When Love Hurts: A Woman’s Guide To Understanding Abuse In Relationships by Jill Cory and Karen McAndless-Davis
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds Of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft